I’m a rare breed. I listen to Mitski to pump myself up. I enjoy the stylings of women made art. I also think that men tend to get in their own way more often than not. I think that lately there’s been this weird, almost esoteric idea that men that exploring the limits of gender and sexuality is not to be done. There is an idea that men who do this are just using it to sleep with other AFAB-people and women. To seem more sympathetic. It’s not a good thought by the way. Gender and sexuality should be explored by all. It shouldn’t be reduced to some thing that people do because they want connection and attention. It has to come from a genuine place…

I want to continue this discussion. But I’m running low on fumes. So I’ll leave it here for now. I may come back…